Secretes Impair Love

 

SECRETS ARE OFTEN A WAY TO AVOID LOVE.

Very often people deceive themselves into believing that they are keeping a secret in order to preserve love and/or acceptance. It is usually just the opposite in practice. The secret actually functions as a way to control a relationship, skewing the partners reality. And preventing one’s self from feeling closely connected and not allowing a feeling of acceptance.

How does this work? “IF THEY KNEW MY SECRET THE WOULD NOT LOVE ME”. It works because the keeper of the secrete maintains a belief that if their partner in the relationship knew the secret they wouldn’t love them. Thus setting up a situation that allows the secret keeper to deflect the love of others.

It absolutely stops one’s sense of intimacy

MR

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